I had to put my dad in memory care and he doesn't recognize me anymore, and I keep crying for who he was but everyone says I should focus on who he is now.
More people experience this than they realize.
Progressive diseases steal the essence of loved ones gradually, creating ongoing grief for the living while they remain physically present.
“Where Are You with Disenfranchised grief — when loss isn't recognized?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.