Periagoge
Scenario

When Long-Term Caregiving Leads to Resentment

I have been caring for my disabled brother for fifteen years since our parents died and I love him but I sometimes fantasize about what my life would be like if I were free.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Devotion and sacrifice can coexist with grief for the unlived life, creating guilt about natural human desires for freedom.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist Brahmaviharas in Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.