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How to ask for intimacy in a sexless marriage

I have been celibate in my marriage for three years and my spouse seems fine with it but I am dying inside and do not know how to ask for what I need.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The death of physical connection can happen so slowly that speaking its name feels like breaking a spell of mutual protection.

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