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Scenario

When you care more about the consequences than the person creating them

I have been covering for my husband's drinking problem at family gatherings for five years making excuses when he gets too drunk and I realized last night that I am more worried about what people think than he is.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You have become the keeper of a reputation that belongs to someone who has already abandoned it.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Codependency?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.