Periagoge
Scenario

When someone you help reveals values that repulse you

I have been driving my elderly neighbor to medical appointments for months but she has started making racist comments about other patients and I do not know if I should stop helping her.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are questioning whether compassion requires tolerating harmful beliefs or if love itself demands accountability.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.