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When fidelity starts feeling like death

I have been faithful to my husband through twenty-three years of marriage but I met someone last month who makes me feel alive in ways I had forgotten were possible and I cannot stop thinking about what if.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Commitment can become a kind of burial when it asks us to bury not just temptation but the parts of ourselves that still hunger for transformation.

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“Where Are You with Commitment — what it means and what it costs?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.