Periagoge
Scenario

When fidelity starts feeling like death

I have been faithful to my husband through twenty-three years of marriage but I met someone last month who makes me feel alive in ways I had forgotten were possible and I cannot stop thinking about what if.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Commitment can become a kind of burial when it asks us to bury not just temptation but the parts of ourselves that still hunger for transformation.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Commitment — what it means and what it costs?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.