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How to address dishonesty about intimacy in long-term relationships

I have been faking orgasms for three years and now I do not know how to tell him without destroying his confidence and our entire sexual relationship.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Protective lies compound over time until the truth feels too dangerous to speak.

Ideas that help explain it
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“Where Are You with Long-term partnership — sustaining love over time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.