I have been in love with the same person for ten years and we have never been together and I cannot tell if this is devotion or delusion.
More people experience this than they realize.
The heart sometimes chooses impossible beloveds as a way of loving without the risk of being truly known.
“Where Are You with Sufi Love — Divine Eros and Mirabai's Devotion?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.