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Scenario

How to address financial deception around personal spending in relationships

I have been lying to my partner about how much money I spend on my hobbies because they think it is wasteful, but it is the only thing that brings me joy anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Joy has gone underground, requiring deception to survive in a relationship where pleasure is not budgeted.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and money — financial stress in relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.