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How to handle fantasies about alternate life paths in long-term relationships

I have been married for fifteen years and love my spouse but I find myself fantasizing about what my life would be like if I had made different choices.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are reckoning with the weight of chosen life while mourning all the selves you never became.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined relationship — building intentionally?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.