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Scenario

When your long-term spouse admits they were never in love

I have been married for twenty-eight years and my husband just told me he has never been in love with me and I do not know which of us is more surprised that he said it out loud.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The collapse of a foundational assumption can make an entire life feel like a story you misunderstood while living it.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Marriage as Institution and Lived Experience?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.