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Scenario

When attraction feels too intense for a long marriage

I have been married for twenty years and I still get nervous butterflies when my husband comes home, but I worry this means I never really relaxed into the relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The persistence of desire can feel as unsettling as its absence, questioning what constitutes healthy attachment.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attraction — the science and the mystery?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.