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When You Suppress Hurt to Avoid Being Difficult

I have been pretending my feelings aren't hurt when my boyfriend cancels plans last minute because I don't want to be the girlfriend who complains.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of being labeled as problematic teaches the heart to swallow its legitimate wounds until numbness becomes normal.

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“Where Are You with Self-Worth in Relationship Context?”

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