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Scenario

When You Become a Detective About Someone's Past

I have been researching my crush's ex-girlfriend for weeks and I know her job her hobbies and where she went to college even though we have never met.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Obsessive research about a person's history is an attempt to create certainty and control in the inherently uncertain territory of love.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love Addiction?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.