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Scenario

When you protect yourself by expecting the worst

I have been seeing someone for six weeks and I already know exactly how he will disappoint me even though he has done nothing wrong yet.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are armoring your heart with cynicism, preferring the safety of low expectations to the risk of hope.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.