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Scenario

How to Stop Financially Supporting an Adult Sibling Who Won't Help Themselves

I have been supporting my adult brother financially for three years and he shows no signs of trying to become independent and I feel trapped between love and enabling.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Compassion becomes complicity when it shields another from the consequences that might awaken their own strength.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Autonomy and Togetherness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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