I have been the primary emotional support for my friend group for years but when I went through my divorce none of them really showed up for me the way I always show up for them.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your pattern of over-giving has trained others to under-give, creating the very abandonment you were trying to prevent.
“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.