I have vaginismus and penetration is painful but my boyfriend keeps suggesting we just need to relax more and try harder.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your body's protective response is being met with solutions that ignore the wisdom of your pain.
“Where Are You with Physical Intimacy and Desire?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.