I hired a priest for my mother's antyesti but he kept rushing through everything and mispronouncing her name and I felt like her sendoff was disrespectful but I don't know what to do about it.
More people experience this than they realize.
Sacred moments require reverent attention, yet practical necessities sometimes deliver ceremony without genuine care.
“Where Are You with Hindu grief practices — antyesti and shraddha?”
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