I keep a mental scorecard of everything I do for my boyfriend versus what he does for me and I'm always losing but I can't stop counting.
More people experience this than they realize.
The compulsion to measure love reveals the terror that without constant proof of worth, affection might simply evaporate.
“Where Are You with Self-Worth in Relationship Context?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.