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Scenario

When You Always End Relationships Before They Can End You

I keep breaking up with people right before they can break up with me and I'm starting to see the pattern but I can't stop it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The certainty of self-inflicted pain feels safer than the uncertainty of being left, even when love might have stayed.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.