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Scenario

When caring becomes compulsive checking

I keep checking on my elderly father multiple times a day even though he has told me he is fine because I am terrified something will happen and it will be my fault for not being there.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your anxiety about loss has transformed love into surveillance, creating the very burden you fear becoming.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Codependency?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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