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Why Constant Code-Switching in Relationships Is Exhausting

I keep code-switching between cultures depending on which family I'm with and I'm losing track of who I really am in this relationship.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The authentic self disappears when love requires endless performance of different selves.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dating Across Cultures and Traditions?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.