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Scenario

Why We Choose People Who Choose Someone Else

I keep dating people who are clearly not over their exes because I like the challenge of trying to make them choose me instead.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Competing for love against a ghost allows us to focus on winning rather than examining whether we actually want what we are fighting for.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love Addiction?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.