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When childhood teaches you to love what hurts

I keep dating people who are emotionally unavailable and I know it is because unavailable love is the only kind I learned was possible as a kid.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Early relational patterns become the blueprint for adult love, even when that blueprint guarantees pain.

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