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Why You're Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable People

I keep dating people who are emotionally unavailable and then spending months trying to crack them open like some kind of project.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The familiar wound of unrequited love feels more like home than the foreign territory of being truly seen and chosen.

Ideas that help explain it
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.