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Why do I always choose emotionally unavailable partners

I keep dating people who are emotionally unavailable and then spending months trying to get them to open up while they pull away from me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The familiar distance of unavailable partners feels safer than the vulnerability required for secure love.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.