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When you're attracted to people you can rescue

I keep dating people who need fixing and then feel angry and resentful when they do not appreciate my efforts to help them become better versions of themselves.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You have confused love with the power to transform, seeking relationships where you can be essential rather than simply wanted.

Ideas that help explain it
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