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When we unconsciously seek the dead in the living

I keep dating people who remind me of my dead brother and I do not realize I am doing it until friends point out the similarities.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Grief can drive us to find traces of lost love in new relationships without conscious awareness of the substitution.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and love — what they share?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.