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Why you keep choosing emotionally unavailable partners

I keep dating the same type of unavailable person over and over even though I consciously want commitment and I cannot figure out why I am drawn to people who will not choose me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your unconscious seeks the familiar pain of abandonment rather than the unfamiliar territory of being truly seen.

Ideas that help explain it
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