I keep dreaming about my grandmother asking me why I haven't done her shraddha properly and I wake up with this crushing guilt because I don't really know how to do it right without my parents to guide me.
More people experience this than they realize.
Ancestral obligations weigh heavy when the living lack the knowledge to honor the dead according to tradition.
“Where Are You with Hindu grief practices — antyesti and shraddha?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.