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Why Emotional Unavailability Feels Like Love

I keep falling for people who are emotionally unavailable and I know it's a pattern but I can't seem to feel anything for the people who actually want to be with me.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Attachment system mistakes unavailability for desirability, creating compulsive pursuit of what cannot be obtained.

Worth thinking about

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