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Scenario

Why Emotional Unavailability Feels Like Love

I keep falling for people who are emotionally unavailable and I know it's a pattern but I can't seem to feel anything for the people who actually want to be with me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Attachment system mistakes unavailability for desirability, creating compulsive pursuit of what cannot be obtained.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The philosophy of love — from Plato to contemporary?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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