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Why You Resent Yourself for Being Too Forgiving

I keep forgiving my friend for canceling plans at the last minute and treating me like an option, but I'm starting to resent myself for it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're using forgiveness to avoid the discomfort of setting boundaries with someone you don't want to lose.

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