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Scenario

Why You Resent Yourself for Being Too Forgiving

I keep forgiving my friend for canceling plans at the last minute and treating me like an option, but I'm starting to resent myself for it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're using forgiveness to avoid the discomfort of setting boundaries with someone you don't want to lose.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.