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Scenario

Why You're Attracted to People Who Need Fixing

I keep getting into relationships with people who need fixing and then feeling resentful when they don't change fast enough.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The compulsion to rescue others serves as a distraction from one's own wounds while creating the illusion of being needed rather than wanted.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.