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Why some people choose betrayal over intimacy

I keep having affairs and I know it's wrong but the guilt and secrecy feel more familiar than the vulnerability of being faithful.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Betrayal recreates the familiar chaos that feels more manageable than the exposure of genuine commitment.

Ideas that help explain it
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