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Why healthy relationships can feel emotionally flat

I keep having romantic feelings for people I know are bad for me, while the healthy options feel boring and spark no chemistry.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Nervous systems conditioned by chaos may mistake calm for emptiness, seeking familiar intensity over sustainable peace.

Ideas that help explain it
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