I keep lending my sister money even though she never pays me back and last week I had to choose between paying my rent or giving her another three hundred dollars for her car payment.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear of being seen as selfish or uncaring drives you to sacrifice your own financial stability for someone who has learned to depend on your inability to say no.
“Where Are You with Codependency?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.