Periagoge
Scenario

When preservation becomes its own form of loss

I keep my dead brother's voicemails saved on my phone but I'm afraid to listen to them because what if I wear them out somehow.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The attempt to hold onto the beloved creates new forms of separation.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist grief — impermanence as practice?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.