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Scenario

Why keeping remnants of the dead can become torture

I keep my mother's voicemails saved on my phone two years after she passed because deleting them feels like losing her again, but listening to them breaks me apart.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The objects meant to preserve connection can become prisons that prevent the living from moving through their grief.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The gift of mortality — what loss teaches about being alive?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.