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How fear of abandonment sabotages healthy relationships

I keep picking fights with my boyfriend over small things because I am scared he is going to leave me like everyone else has.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Preemptive rejection becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that destroys what it seeks to protect.

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