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When pointing out a problem becomes the problem

I love my boyfriend but he drinks every single day and gets angry when I suggest it might be a problem, saying I'm trying to control him.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The attempt to address destruction is being reframed as the source of conflict rather than its solution.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and justice — can love be fair??”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.