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Scenario

When You Love Someone But Still Want to Be Single

I love my boyfriend but I have this persistent fantasy about being single and I don't know if that means I should leave or if it's just normal.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The tension between autonomy and connection reveals itself in fantasies of escape that may not actually want fulfillment.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.