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Scenario

Why Marrying the Person You Love Might Mean Losing Yourself

I love my fiancé but his family expects me to quit my job after marriage and I'm scared that losing my independence will kill what we have.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love becomes a site of erasure when cultural expectations demand the sacrifice of selfhood for belonging.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love in Honor and Shame Cultures?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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