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When physical attraction changes in long-term relationships

I love my girlfriend but she's gained sixty pounds since we moved in together and I'm losing physical attraction, which makes me feel like a terrible person.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The tension between unconditional love and embodied desire is creating shame and distance.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and justice — can love be fair??”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.