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Scenario

When physical attraction changes in long-term relationships

I love my girlfriend but she's gained sixty pounds since we moved in together and I'm losing physical attraction, which makes me feel like a terrible person.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The tension between unconditional love and embodied desire is creating shame and distance.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and justice — can love be fair??”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.