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When intellectual intimacy dies in a secure relationship

I love my husband but I find myself fantasizing about what it would be like to have conversations with someone who challenges my thinking the way he used to before we got comfortable.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The safety of partnership has inadvertently eliminated the creative tension that once fueled deeper connection.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.