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Scenario

When new love illuminates old wounds

I love my new baby desperately but I also resent her because having her made me realize how much my own mother failed to love me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Experiencing healthy attachment can make us newly aware of where we were deprived, creating resentment alongside gratitude.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and love — what they share?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.