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Scenario

When non-Ubuntu partners struggle with kinship obligations

I love my partner but they do not understand why I need to attend every family funeral and celebration, and it is causing serious tension in our relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Cross-cultural love is foundering on unspoken assumptions about the weight and meaning of family duty.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African Ubuntu Love and Kinship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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