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When you discover your sexual identity within a committed relationship

I love my partner deeply but I am realizing I might be gay and I do not know how to honor both my truth and his heart.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Self-knowledge can arrive as a gift that feels like a betrayal to everyone you love.

Ideas that help explain it
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.