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When physical attraction changes in long-term relationships

I love my partner deeply but I'm not sexually attracted to them anymore after their weight gain and I feel shallow and terrible about it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The collision between unconditional love and conditional desire exposes the fault lines in romantic idealism.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.