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When emotional and physical attraction diverge

I love my partner deeply but I'm not sexually attracted to them anymore and I don't know if this is normal after eight years together.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The integration of love and desire requires ongoing renewal that many relationships fail to sustain over time.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Falling in love — the neuroscience and the phenomenology?”

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